Only make eye contact if you’re both comfortable with it 👀.Alternate between a hand job and blow job to give your mouth a break.Experiment with different positions until you find your favorites.But if you do, relax your throat muscles to reduce your risk of gagging. Use your tongue to apply pressure to the tip or stimulate the entire shaft.Wrap your lips around your teeth for a firmer feel.Start off with some foreplay to get the blood flowing.